Humor.
Humor can be as
essential as love in holding together a family. Humor has always been an
important element of our family. One example of this is the story of the
Christmas Shoe.
It began in 1973,
at the wedding of Lynn Johnson and Steve Galloway. Lynn Johnson’s maternal
grandmother, Hilda Glandon Meredith, had a dear friend named Dorothy Burke, who
gave
Mrs. Burke had a
good heart, and there was no doubt she had exerted considerable effort in
preparing this thoughtful….if rather unappreciated gift.
A Pair of Wedding Shoes
When Bobbi was
married three years later,
After another three
years went by, Lynn and Steve moved into their new home, and for a house warming
gift…..yes that’s right….Bobbi presented them with a lovely pair of shoes.
One blue, one lavender.
Steve was not particularly thrilled with the housewarming gift.
Mysteriously, the shoes disappeared. Both Bobbi and Lynn were a
little sad. They not only enjoyed the good natured re-gifting….but felt a
little guilty for Mrs. Burke, who had quite seriously, spent considerable time
in crafting the ornate shoes.
The years
flew by, as years do, and occasionally the family discussed the pair of bridal
shoes, and regretted their “mysterious” disappearance.
Reviving the Tradition
Almost
twenty years after the first shoe appeared, Bobbi Johnson Holmes decided it was
time to re-initiate the tradition of the re-gifted shoe, this time, in the guise
of a Christmas Shoe. Bobbi purchased a pair of large, gold, high heel
shoes, and with her daughter, Elizabeth, began decorating one shoe. With
glue gun in hand, they added fake pearls, and green and red beads. After it was
properly garish, they named it the Christmas Shoe…the gift with sole.
They invented the
bridal shoe tradition. Over the next 15 years, the shoe bounced between
the Holmes and Galloway households. It was always important to slip the shoe to
the other family un-expectantly…..which meant that some years the shoe was not
re-gifted, but waited quietly for the right time to be “sprung” on the other
family.
In 2006 Bobbi's
son, Scott, announced his engagement to his beautiful and sweet girlfriend,
SeAnne, a new generation, starting their lives. Who better to give the
Christmas shoe! With the blessings of Lynn Johnson Galloway and Bobbi
Johnson Holmes, the Christmas Shoe passed in 2006 to Scott and SeAnne. May
they someday re-gift it to an unsuspecting Galloway or Holmes family member.
Merry
Christmas!
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